79 Best Home Needs For Your Family
Every home needs certain things to succeed. There is one thing that I want you to apply to every single one of the following ideas:
Have a Top-Down Mentality. This means that leadership flows from the top down. As God is number one in our list, He should be number one in our lives. If we are not revealing this to others by example, we can talk till our breath runs out and be unsuccessful in getting it across.
How do you see your home as a healthy place of growth?
How do you see your home as needing to change?
The answer to both of these is, YOU CHANGE! If you want your spouse or your children to change, take the step to change yourself first!
Let’s dig in, change, and grow!
What are the best home needs for your family?
1. God and His Word.
God is first because God must be first. In every step on this list and in life, ask God for guidance and creativity to be the best you can in everything you do! Ask Him to open your eyes to His Word too! Matthew 6:33
2. A Purpose.
Everyone wants to belong. Develop your home to be a place of fulfilling your purpose. Simply talk about what you love. Compliment what others are good at. Make room for everyone to do the things they are passionate about. Pray about it too. 1 Peter 2:9
3. Dreams.
Your dream helps you fulfill your purpose. Your purpose brings up dreams you want to accomplish. The best thing you can do is write down your dreams as individuals and as a family. Talk and pray about them too. Acts 2:17
4. Worship.
Louie Giglio says, “everyone worships something.” So in your home, there is worship happening. So now rethink this. What is being worshiped? It is our job to manage the direction of our families lives. Have hobbies, but love God more. 1 Chronicles 16:23
5. The Bible.
There is a difference between having “a Bible” and having “the Bible” in your home. “A Bible” sits on the shelf, takes up space, and collects dust. “The Bible” has authority. Meaning it’s trusted, it’s read, and it’s shaping your life. Opt for the latter. 2 Timothy 3:16
6. Humility.
The example of humility is missing in the world. Jesus gives us an example. We should be an example to our family, friends, neighbors, and co-workers. It starts at home! Rather than thinking you have to win… try humbling yourself and make sure someone else is enjoying themselves too. 1 Peter 5:6-7
7. Patience.
This is always easier said than done. It takes a lot of humility. But again, our world needs more of this. In a fast paced, microwave world, let’s slow down and not worry about our needs. Think of someone else. Ephesians 4:2
8. “I’m Sorry.”
Others need to hear you say “I’m sorry” – especially kids. At some point you’re going to lose your cool. When it happens, be humble enough to acknowledge your impatience, say, “I’m sorry.” James 5:16
9. Forgiveness.
Bitterness is the last thing you want to creep into your life. Learn to forgive, personally forgive, and teach others to forgive. Start early and this will bring peace to your home. Ephesians 4:32
10. Commitments.
We live in such a non committal world. Strive to be different. Stand out and stand out loud. Prove to others that it’s not only doable, but most valuable to follow through on your commitments. 1 Kings 8:61
11. Promises.
Follow through on what you promise. Weigh your words heavily. Because broken promises create broken hearts and dreams. Numbers 30:2
12. Testimonies.
Take the time to share about things you learn each day. It doesn’t matter how old you are, you’re still learning. Take the time to laugh about things that happened. It may seem a little blah to “talk about your day,” but this is vital to family. 2 Timothy 1:8
13. Honesty.
Honestly, this is something that will revolutionize your family’s life. Being honest is humbling and necessary. We all make mistakes. Fess up, it will change the course of your life. Proverbs 12:22
14. Thank You Notes.
Physical notes are old fashioned, but so valuable. There is nothing like feeling special to someone else. Have an inventory of thank you cards available. Teach your family to appreciate one another by writing a note. 1 Thessalonians 5:18
15. Cleanliness.
Cleanliness is not next to Godliness. But it is related. In fact, when your life is changed by the power of the Holy Spirit, the first recognizable change is a cleaned up life. Making your bed, cleaning up your dishes, keeping clothes in the hamper all help bring purpose. Small steps, big change. Isaiah 1:16
16. Chores.
This is essential to see young people learn discipline and servitude. Not to mention a lesson in money management (it doesn’t grow on trees). Philippians 2:14-15
17. Servanthood in the Home.
This goes over and above chores. As others see you serving and caring for them, they will step in and help you. Eventually even young kids or teenagers will see the need to pick up trash when they see it. 1 Peter 4:10
18. Servanthood Outside the Home.
From serving at church together to going on an overseas mission trip. Plug in together serving others. Make this a regular part of your home. Mark 10:45
19. Leadership.
Here comes some controversial stuff. Men are called to lead, while loving and respecting their wives. Wives are called to help while loving and respecting their husbands. Both are leaders. Make decisions together! Proverbs 11:14
20. A Mom.
In a day and age when not every home has a mother, or has two mothers, there is a necessity to link back to God’s Word and His purpose for our lives. Even in a single father home there is a necessity for a mother, at least a mother figure. Isaiah 49:15
21. A Dad.
Likewise, not every home has a father, or has two fathers. Our foundation must still be the same. Even in a single mother home there is a necessity for a father, at least a father figure. Proverbs 22:6
22. A Church to Attend.
It is vital that the church is a priority. We all need the Word spoken to us while we allow the Holy Spirit to speak. Go the extra mile to talk about how you are personally convicted and discuss how you’re going to change rather than run from it. Hebrews 10:24-25
23. Bible Study.
When you exemplify importance in attending a weekly bible study it shows your kids (and even a lost spouse) how important it is. Deuteronomy 6:6-7
24. Prayer.
Prayer works. If you don’t know how it works? Pray and ask God to teach you how it works! It is that simple. Just start doing it. Just like walking, riding a bike, or juggling, it gets easier the more you do it. Philippians 4:6
25. Books to Read.
Young children need books to learn and grow. Older children need books to continue growing and keep their imagination sharp. Adults need them most to lead well. Have interesting books around to spark interest in a variety of subjects. Knowledge is power. Daniel 1:17
26. Faithful Friends.
This one is tough. Because faithful friends are hard to find. So, when you do have someone that has proven to be faithful, stick with them. Work out your differences and keep the relationship alive. Proverbs 27:6
27. Discussion Starters.
Most young people don’t want to communicate. Most adults don’t know how to get them to. Find methods that get everyone talking. Place cards on your dining room table. Have regular dinner times together and read off a few cards. 2 Thessalonians 2:15
28. Favorite Things.
It’s important you enjoy life. Talk about what your family likes. Know what their favorite things are and be sure to make time for those things. It will bring you closer together. Jeremiah 29:11
29. A Creative Space.
I have personally found it’s impossible for me to study or get anything done around others making noise. I need a space to create. I love music and writing. I break away into my studio. It’s where I am right now! Genesis 1:27
30. A Rec Space.
Especially late at night or during mid-winter blues it’s great to have a space in the home meant for games. Big ideas like a pool table or ping-pong are great, but not always possible. At least have a closet with games and balls to enjoy. Create your own games if you have to! Psalm 16:11
31. Silence.
Frustration comes when you don’t have regular personal time with God. Don’t be afraid to slow down. Be more afraid of not stopping. Turn off the TV. Get away from your hobbies and favorite things for a bit, enjoy silence. God speaks in a whisper. Psalm 46:10
Aesthetic Needs:
32. Wall Decorations.
This is something that brings more life into your home than you may realize. Custom designs for various rooms help. My music room/studio has all kinds of pictures of music related stuff. My office has stuff from all around the world. James 1:17
33. Family Pictures.
Don’t forget to get family pictures at least every couple of years. Go the old fashioned route too of getting some printed and hung on the wall, placed on your desk or night stand, etc. It’s a fading fade that helps with unity. Genesis 1:27
34. Mirrors.
Mirrors make rooms feel bigger. Nerf gun suction bullets stick to them. Stopping at a mirror while a child is on my shoulders, always gets a laugh. They complete a room in so many ways. Psalm 17:15
35. Lamps.
Bring some style into your living space. Turn off those big overhead lights and enjoy a little ambiance! John 1:5
36. Instruments.
Spark musical interest. Take a lesson yourself. I play guitars myself so maybe I’m biased. But, I still have a keyboard and drums. I’m not as good at them, but messing around and showing my kids stuff is great. Psalm 150:1-6
37. Television.
Have a television. Knowing when to turn it on and off is the key. But some great times have been had around a television too! Psalm 101:3
38. Interactive Group Video Games.
I’ve never made video games a big deal. But group games are always a blast. Things like Jackbox.tv and other educational games are a great way to keep up with the younger generation while also having fun. 1 Peter 3:8
39. Board Games.
Not everyone likes them, but take time to actually play a board game. It breaks the mold of a typical night at home. Plus, kids typically have a favorite, play on that! Ephesians 5:21
40. Card Games.
The same thing applies here. Plus these take up less space. Take some time to learn a new game with your families. I’ve had great connection times and a lot of fun just playing a simple card game with my kids. Matthew 7:12
41. Puzzles.
Personally, I hate puzzles. But so many people in my family actually love them. So I humble myself and sit down to a puzzle at times. It’s a good thing! Exodus 14:14
42. Art.
Make room for art in your home. Young ages need to have access to coloring and painting. But supply crafts for all ages. Make it fun… finger paints or paintball art (take it outside). There is something for everyone here. Isaiah 64:8
43. Music.
I think art and music are key. An early interest in music can open the doors for less wasted time doing various things they can’t do the rest of their lives. Music is something that has carried on through the ages. Ephesians 5:19
44. Storage Space.
Getting rid of clutter actually creates less stress, embarrassment, and frustration. Find creative ways to store stuff under beds and neatly in closets. It will shape your attitude in your home! Colossians 2:23
45. Company.
Have people over. This helps with a lot of things. Not only does it keep your place more clean and organized, it gives your family what you need most: relationships. 1 Peter 4:9
46. A Night Out Getaway.
Getting away from home is always good too. Parents getting out together is healthy. Getting out with the family can be costly, but there are plenty of free things you can do too! Pick up some yard games and find a park. Find hiking or biking trails in your area. Hebrews 13:4
47. A Vacation Getaway.
You should do this every year. Save up! Talk about it and plan it together. It builds excitement in the preparation. Then it gives a break from the day to day life as well as a deeper connection as a family. I advise having a book that you review together every day too. 1 Timothy 5:8
48. Vacation Map.
Be as creative as you want with this. Use a wall or just a simple folded map and mark all the places you’ve been as a family. Try to visit new places each trip with a vision for where you want to visit in the future. Philippians 1:3-5
Others Needs:
49. A Sale.
It’s so good to let go of stuff. Teaching young people this early on is also healthy. Why waste so much space holding on to the things you’ve not used in the last year. Have a garage sale and make a few extra bucks. Proverbs 3:5-6
50. A Donation Pile.
After a sale, don’t hold on to what you’ve already let go of. Give it away. Find a needy place that can use your items. You can even get tax credit for them. 2 Corinthians 9:71
51. A Gift Pile.
Have a pile of gifts that can be given away. Look for clearance items and buy them when you see them. A secret stash for kids is great for rewarding them for good behavior. A public stash is great if they have a friend who has a birthday or someone they just want to encourage. 1 Thessalonians 5:11
52. A Thanksgiving Jar.
Make a habit at dinner time at least once a week to pull out the Thanksgiving Jar. It’s not just a holiday. Express your gratitude throughout the week by jotting down something you’re thankful for and put it in the jar. Then pull them out and read them aloud. Ephesians 5:20
53. New Clothes.
This one can be pricey if you have a large family. But don’t wait until clothing is filthy and full of holes to replace it. Lift your family’s spirits by keeping clothing freshly washed and have some new stuff from time to time. 1 Timothy 2:9-10
54. Laundry Day.
Keeping everything clean can be a chore. But it builds positivity and cleanliness to keep it up. Take advantage of this as a chore too. Everyone should know what day is their laundry day. Have them help make it happen. Psalm 51:10
55. New Toys.
Everything gets old. Yeah, you can’t always buy new things, nor should you. But try putting things away for a season, pull it back out and it feels new again. It’s actually a healthy habit to let things go, let nothing physical consume you. Matthew 6:19-21
56. Air Fresheners/Car Care.
It’s as simple as a cheap stop at the dollar store to keep your car smelling fresh. Have a regular wash and cleaning out your car also builds self-esteem and a sense of purpose. Ephesians 5:2
57. Candles/Home Care.
Candles can be pricey so you can also find cheaper home air fresheners that help keep your place smelling fresh. Cleaning is essential to self-esteem, purpose, and chores. Keep on it. Philippians 4:18
58. Exercise.
Having a space to exercise isn’t always a possibility in every home. If you don’t want to deal with the gym memberships (which can be a great option) you can gather basic items for even the simplest of workouts taking up little space. This develops discipline while also keeping your body active. Hebrews 12:12
59. A Fire Pit.
Open flames are not always an option in every neighborhood, so ignore this if it doesn’t apply to you. But lounging around a warm crackling fire can be just what the family needs to unwind and forget about the busy days. 2 Timothy 1:6
60. S’mores.
What kid doesn’t love cooking (even burning) things over the fire. Get some cooking sticks or make your own (that can be fun in itself). Get out the S’more fixings and enjoy. Ecclesiastes 9:7
61. Backyard Games.
There is a time to slow down and relax in your yard. There is also a time to set up a game to have a little family competition. Ecclesiastes 2:24
Indoor Needs:
62. A Family Recipe Book.
Passing things down from generation to generation helps young people remember the most important recipe to a good family, relationships. And relationships are built around good food, cooking that food together, and the fellowship of creating memories while also remembering the days of old. Acts 2:46
63. Picture Albums.
This seems old school, and it really is. In reality, print some pictures and put them on the wall. Go to the next step for what you should do with your other pictures. But, also, take note here that having old picture albums out for family to review can be fun entertainment. Philippians 1:3-5
64. Picture Books.
In today’s world everything is digital. So every year (at least) create a family photo book. Label it with the year and various things that happened throughout. It will be a great memory book for years down the road. Don’t rely on Facebook memories alone. John 14:26
65. A Metronome.
This may sound strange for non-musical people. But just like you have a calculator for learning math, letter books or games for learning the alphabet, a metronome can teach you basic timing. This can help with music and dance, but it can just be fun too. John 15:7
66. Basic Mechanic Tools.
No home is equipped without a few basic tools to get you by when necessary. Socket sets, screw driver sets, jack and jackstands. All things you can have in the garage without breaking the bank. Exodus 14:14
67. Basic Home Repair Tools.
You never know what small repair you may need to make on the house. Here are a few essential tools every home needs: A drill. Drill bits and drivers. Screw drivers. Putty knife. Utility knife. Tape. Hammer. Fasteners like nails and screws. Sand paper. Hebrews 10:35
68. Flashlights.
For whatever life throws at you. Light it up with a battery powered flashlight. Keep them handy in beside stands and in important rooms like the kitchen and bathrooms. John 8:12
69. Work Lights.
Phones are incredibly versatile. But how annoying it is to try and hold or set your phone to light up a project under the sink or behind the washer. Find a corded or battery powered light to help ease frustration. Buy a light in a combo pack with your drill. John 1:5
70. Airplay.
Having an option to stream your phone or computer to a TV is a great commodity and a way to keep young people entertained too. Whether it’s a game like Jackbox.tv or simply showing funny videos or pictures, take advantage of these simple airplay options. Acts 2:1
71. Streaming Platform.
There is a time to turn the TV off for sure. But there is nothing like connecting over a documentary or a series or trilogy that brings the family together over popcorn. Psalm 34:3
72. Internet.
It’s crazy to even put this here. Does anyone live without it? That should tell us something. Either power off your internet at night or set up accounts for young people to not have access separately from adults. Healthy usage is important for everyone. Proverbs 18:15
73. Blasts from the Past.
It’s always good to talk and even show pictures or albums from your past and share stories of what life was like when you were young. Share the mistakes you made. The consequences. What was good and bad… what was your favorite thing growing up… Luke 2:19
74. Heartfelt Stories.
I’m not much of a Hallmark movie guy, but there is an appreciation for “chick flicks” and dramas. Take advantage of these moments. Watch things you may never think of watching. You’ll find, as corny as it may be, it tugs on the heart and changes you for the better. Luke 8:39
75. Favorite Snacks.
Everyone likes snacks. Have a special spot for each person in the family to keep their own favorite snacks on hand. They will appreciate the gesture. Acts 2:42
76. Birthday Parties.
Take time to let others know you care for them. Celebrate them. We spend enough time harassing and poking fun at the people closest to us. Balance that with personal celebrations too. Psalm 118:24
77. A Good Neighbor.
As a family, be mindful of how you can help the people around you. An elderly couple that needs help cleaning leaves. A family who needs a dog sitter, baby sitter, neighborhood watch. Don’t be the neighbor that keeps to yourself. Extend a hand. Luke 10:25-37
78. Workouts in the Home.
The necessity to stay fit is important. There are plenty of products you can spend a lot of money on. But you also can keep the cost down by getting basic equipment or even no equipment at all. Review your options, stay sharp, stay fit. 1Timothy 4:8
79. Healthy Snacking.
The easiest way to backtrack in your health is through unhealthy snacking. Find ways to replace unhealthy snacks with things that are better for you. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20
FAQ
How important are healthy home habits?
Essential. If you want to be effective in life, you need good habits. You also need to rid your life of the bad habits.
What is most important as a new believer?
The small things. It’s so easy to step into a relationship with God and think you have to do all these things. Take small steps to change small things. You’ll experience a big impact, in time.
What is a HOME NEED?
In life it’s easy to overlook the obvious. Not only do we get so busy and expect things at much more rapid pace, we tend to negate the small stuff that seems unimportant.
A need by definition is something “required because it is essential or very important.” Unfortunately our needs get drowned out by our wants, worries, and busyness.
Take some time to seriously pray about what you need. Some things in this list may be very simple. But it’s often the small stuff, the simple stuff, that makes a profound impact. Plus, we all need others speaking into our lives.
How can these HOME NEEDS benefit my home and family?
We should never stop learning and growing. It’s never too early or late to get started with things that will help assist and strengthen yourself and your family.
A healthy home creates a healthy culture. A healthy culture helps other hurting cultures. We can effectively change the world. Much like the Gospel of Jesus Christ started with just 12 ordinary men, your ordinary home and family can too!
Wrapping things up
I have been working in church work for 20 years. 18 of those years as a youth pastor. Every step of the way music and creative arts have always been my passion alongside personal ministry and preaching, teaching, training others in the bible and music.
Sometimes it’s not a matter of great wisdom, just a little creativity. I hope that this list can help get your creative juices flowing. And if you lack anything, trust God, use all 79 options and spend extra time praying. God is speaking, slow down though, cause it’s a whisper.
Thanks for taking the time to read this! God bless.
